1. My friend, Hayley (aka grimmgirl), is a SAINT. She let Jackson (the little brother) stay at her house most of the weekend. Also, Haley gave me a hiding place and a cup of coffee during the party. 2. My 11 year isn’t perfect but he isn’t a bad kid, either. At least not when compared to some of his friends. 3. The TO can be helpful with enough nagging and bitching. 4. The TO will ALWAYS expect payment for…